Students who have a same position like Liu, they would be understood how he felt, and what he felt. Followed the example, I, of course, had a same experience like Liu. I usually hung out with bunch of Korean friends after class or during the weekend. It is a just natural situation. The reason why it happens is a nature of mind which lived in the same country and had a same culture since a birth. It just gets used to it. Then, the environments where we used to live are just changed and feel really lonely. Therefore, the result followed this situation makes the international students be together.
Followed this kind of phenomenon, there are some ways to fixed. However the best thing which I recommend is “Say Hello to Everyone” In this country, it is not a weird behavior like where I live. Even thought people don’t know each other, they just say hello. It looks like not a big deal but it gives me a huge impression and a suitability of aspiration. Furthermore, of course, the answer also has to be clear like “Yes or No”. I mean the answer for all questions. It will give a lot of difference situations. If you don’t answered obviously, a response will have a diverse meaning which you don’t expect.
Those two things give a lot of change to me. Especially, my personal character is totally changed. Shy will not give any differences, active motive, friendly smile, and lucid answer, those things are what you need to make an American friend and to be adopted to live in this country.
* phenomenon : is something that is observed to happen or exit.
* aspiration : Someone's aspirations are their disire to achieve things.
* lucid : 1 . writing or speech is clear and easy to understand
2. If someone is lucid, they are thinking cleary again after a period of illness
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